Tuesday, March 6, 2012

A Most Ingenious Paradox!

It's Midterm Week, and y'all know what that means (or, at least you should by now): it's time for me to procrastinating studying for about an hour and write a blog! It's going to be kind of a Lulu, I think. I almost through a Mississippi-hissy fit because this blog has been rattling around for about a week, and when I opened the "new post" window, I forgot it. Yeah, I almost flipped the table. Luckily for me (and the rest of this cafe that I'm sitting in), I remembered as soon as I closed the window.


Then you will be handed over to be persecuted and put to death, and you will be hated by all nations because of me. Matthew 24:9

If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. John 15:18-19a

When I lived in my safe little hometown firmly cinched in the Bible Belt, I had no idea what these verses meant. Nobody hates me. Why could anybody hate me because I'm a Christian? I didn't do anything wrong. I'm just going to school and to church like everybody else in this little bitty town.

And then I went to college.

Now, I have had entire conversations with people who I thought were cool, heck, entire friendships with people that I thought were cool, until they found out that I go to church... After they find out I go to church, we usually have one more conversation that goes about like "So are you a Christian? How could you? You can't tell me how to live my life. I won't let you judge me!" Yet just before that, we were friends. I never judged them. I never even gave them so much as an idea about what to get for lunch at Chickfila, much less spiritual guidance.

What did I do?

This college that I go to, minus the safe-haven of Christian friends that I retreat to, is very vocal on why they hate Christianity. I've never heard such hatred about any other religion, not even Islam. Everyone's afraid that if they hate on Islam, Judaism, Buddhism, etc, they'll be labeled as "rascist" or some other ridiculousness. Christianity though, is safe to hate on. I mean, we persecuted first, right? We had the Crusades and all that stuff... killing tons of people in the name of God CENTURIES ago. Nevermind the fact that there are terrorists of another religion (that shall remain nameless because know they're RADICALS and don't represent that religion as a whole) killing tons of people NOW.

We're hated because we're judgemental. We judge people for everything they do. We're hypocrites, but so are they. We're flawed, but so are they. We are hated for the same reason that people hate themselves. Except this time, people blame our flaws on a higher power that they don't believe exists but we know does exist.

It's a paradox. Christians are hated because we hated first... But, the thing is, I don't hate anybody. I never killed people in crusades. I used to judge people and it is an active responsibility to not do that, but tell me you don't judge people. It's a universal problem to try and make yourself look better by tearing others down in your mind (or out loud). I don't sit in Free Speech Alley, calling girls in shorts "Jezebel" and telling college students they're going to hell. I have never burned a Qu'ran.

I'm not perfect, but you hate me for reasons that you cannot articulate. However, allow me to do that for you, using the very doctrine that you hate. With that, I'll go back to the verse I left off with:

If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you.- John 15:19

If all the Christians in the world stopped being all the things that the world hates us for, hypocrites, haters, judgers, proselytizers, screaming sign-wearing crazies, the world would still hate us. It would find a reason. But here's the kicker, God doesn't like haters and judgers and hypocrites either! We still have to stop being all these things, but not because the world hates it, but because it's not BIBLICAL! It's not Christlike! Christ was hated and that guy was perfect! We are called to be Christlike, but that does not mean we will not be hated along the way.

And so, lift your head, you little Christian alien. You are not of this world, so stop acting like it! Stop waiting for the world to love you as much as it loves Lady Gaga and start living for the God that loves you so much that we cannot possibly understand it.

 Live for Jesus, but understand that it comes with a price of having enemies of the world.

6 comments:

  1. I won't say that you are incorrect in your experiences because, after all, you experienced them, but, as a fellow student at LSU, I can tell you that I haven't taken notice of any of this. Maybe this is because I'm an atheist, maybe because I'm not looking for it; I don't know.

    Either way, through my experiences, I would still claim the opposite is true--though I wouldn't use the word "hate." I was asked to go to church twice today on separate occasions, and I'm still getting emails from the BCM though I remember asking not to receive them anymore. Also, if you want to receive leering glances, just get into the hamburger line in the 459 on Fridays. And just the other day someone said to me, "You're an atheist? But you're so nice!" And if anyone doesn't understand how unbelievably rude that is to say, it's as if I said, "You're a believer? But you're so smart!"

    But, back on topic, I don't see any "hatred," as you called it, toward Christians or the Christian faith at the school. The only thing that I can think of to explain what you have experienced is the fact that we live in a state that is 90% Christian and a country that is 80% Christian, making it clearly the most prevalent religion out there--which means it is the most available for scrutiny. And, believe me, if the people you are encountering are nonbelievers or skeptics, as you implied they were, then their problem is most likely not with you personally but religion as a whole.

    I would suggest, if you have the time or the desire to procrastinate even further, watching this video from about 5:30 - 25:30 for a litany of reasons why atheists are so angry--and it's not just toward the Christian faith.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GUI_ML1qkQE


    PS. There are also plenty of assholes at this school, so you could have easily found some of them. Throw a stick into the quad, and you're bound to hit one.

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    1. I watched the video you posted, Anonymous. It was a good one. I appreciated Greta's criticisms of different religions, and I didn't disagree with her at all. All of the things she mentioned make me angry as well. Even some of the things she mentioned about believers. I agreed with her criticism of women being taught to submit to their husbands, and even have written a blog about it myself a few months back, if you want to check it out. I could give a few more examples of things I agreed with her about, but it was a 20 minute segment and we'd be here all day.

      My blog was not about why Christianity is hated, but why specific Christians are looked down upon because of their religion. I don't hate you for being Atheist, Anonymous, and I don't think you hate me for being Christian, but the fact of the matter is that some people will choose to disassociate with me after learning my religion because of all the things that Greta mentioned. The problem is, I didn't do any of those things that she was angry about. I didn't protest about teaching evolution, I never raped any children, I don't tell battered women to go back to their deadbeat husbands and submit to them. But yet, I get flack from people about it, just like you may have caught hell (if you'll pardon the pun) for burning a cross and making human sacrifices (which I'm sure you've never done).

      Maybe I have just found a few belligerent people, but I don't seem to be the only one, so that is why I felt the need to post this blog. I'm sorry the BCM won't stop emailing you, it took them a while to take me off their mailing list as well. Very annoying.


      PS. I literally JUST understood your "hamburger line on Friday" line. I guess you can tell I'm not Catholic! Ha!

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  2. That's why you're the best, Val! (Also, I feel like we've broken up, I never see you anymore.. lol) And I agree with all of this, but the main problem with college campuses is that no matter how 'cultured' they think they are, the fact is most students are still kids! -many examining their beliefs for the first time, are just as judgemental as the religions they rail against, and have no clue yet about real life.. And to the other commenter- as someone who routinely gets demonized by my own family for believing differently (I'm similar to an agnostic humanist, they're Bible belt 'evangelical nondenominational' protestants), I can def say people will always notice, and remember, those who ridicule them the most

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  3. ..the key is learning to love people, regardless of their religions!

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  4. yeah!!! :D saludos Valerie! como estas? te mando un gran abrazo! God bless ya

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